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Alt.com Review October 2026

Alt.com is an online BDSM, Fetish, and Kink dating site.
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Alt.com is an adult dating site for singles, couples and groups interested in BDSM and other fetishes
  • Proof of identity for account verification
  • Live adult cam models free to watch
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Members in Hong Kong10,000
Women / Men 24% 76%
FromHK$65.37/mo
Age 18-24 25-34 35-44

Alt.com in 10 seconds

  • Adult site for singles, couples, or groups who are into BDSM, Role-Playing, and other sexual fetishes
  • Submission of proof of identity is needed for account verification. Read more about Alt's registration process
  • You can watch live adult cam models for free
  • Despite the verification process, there are still reported fake and scammer profiles interacting on the site
  • Premium membership is available in 2 types and in 3 duration packages

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“Alt.com is an adult dating site especially for BDSM lovers and for those who would like to try out-of-the-ordinary erotic practices. If you want to be somewhere you can find like-minded people and if you want to intensely enjoy and satisfy your sexual fetishes, sign-up at Alt.com.”

Chris Pleines, Founder of DatingScout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
Is Alt.com right for you?

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Who is Alt.com for, and not for?

Alt.com is for…
  • Singles looking for hookups that satisfies their BDSM and kinky fetishes
  • Dominant or submissive individuals looking for their counterpart
  • Couples looking for swingers, threesomes, and couple fun swap
…and not for
  • Singles who are looking for serious dating
  • Couples who are not on the same page in their relationship
  • Singles who want to fall in love and find a monogamous, long-term partner

Alt.com pros & cons

  • You can watch videos of live models for free for a couple of minutes
  • Profiles can be very detailed about a member's BDSM role and level of experience
  • There is a Purity Test that you can take to reveal how pure or naughty you are – results will show up in your profile
  • There are numerous amount of fake and scammer profiles
  • Customer support is unresponsive to billing complains
  • Not many free contacting features to use for flirting with other members if you want to test out the site first

What Alt.com really costs

Compared with other dating services, Alt.com is in the upper midfield.
Silver Membership
A subscription with unlimited access to all profiles, plus reading and sending messages. It renews automatically.Total
1 month 156.54 HKD / month 156.54 HKD
3 months 94.08 HKD / month 282.24 HKD
Our pick: At 282.24 HKD, 3 months cost 94.08 HKD per Month, a 40% saving against the first row. It covers Silver Membership for viewing and contacting members.
12 months 65.37 HKD / month 784.43 HKD
Gold Membership
A renewing membership with unlimited profile access, messages and member network ICQ, AIM and MSN IDs.Total
1 month 235.01 HKD / month 235.01 HKD
3 months 156.85 HKD / month 470.56 HKD
12 months 98.06 HKD / month 1,176.76 HKD
Alt.com costs last updated on Oct 1, 2026
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Can you try Alt.com for free?
  • You can test Alt.com free of charge
  • You can at least read a message for free to try the service

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What is the notice period on Alt.com?

The notice period on Alt.com is 10 days.

Gold and Silver Members have unlimited access to all profiles. However, free members cannot initiate contact and view the profiles of Gold and Silver Members.

Free services
  • Registration
  • Uploading a photo
  • Joining chat rooms
  • Flirt
  • Send Flowers
  • Add to Hotlist
  • Add as friend
  • Hot or Not
  • Search
  • Kink search
  • Live member webcams
Paid services
  • View and contact members
  • Be on top of the search list
  • Be the first to contact new members
  • Access members' live and recorded video intros
  • Access to blogs, groups, and magazine features
  • 24/7 phone support
  • Access to ICQ, AIM, and MSN ID's of members in your network (Gold Members)
  • Read and send messages
  • Send virtual gifts
  • Pay-per-minute adult movies

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Who is signed up on Alt.com?

Exclusively on DatingScout: online member numbers for dating services are usually far off, so we estimate how many people are really on Alt.com from traffic data and interest, updated monthly, with history. Last data update: September 2026.

People who belong to the Alt.com adult dating community are lovers of BDSM and those who are beginners or curious, who would like to try bondage and fetish sex. Alt.com members are not necessarily singles - they can be individuals, couples, or groups who have unconventional taste in bed. They are erotic fans, and they are individuals who practice role-playing when having sex. Some members prefer to be the dominant one, while others like being submissive better. 

Becoming a member is not only for those who have been practicing BDSM. Alt.com also welcomes newbies and those who are curious about this kind of sex dating. Most members just join to look for no-strings-attached sex. They are on the hunt for like-minded individuals who can satisfy their peculiar sexual fetishes. 

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Weekly active members
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Alt.com in detail

Signing up at Alt.com ★★★★★ 4.0/5

Username & password
  • You must be at least 18 years old to sign up
  • Couples can sign up to share a single account
  • You must sign up to browse Alt.com

To sign up, visit the Alt.com website. To complete the registration, provide all required information.

Required information

  • Username
  • Date of birth
  • Location
  • Your gender
  • Profile bio / greeting

Optional information

  • Your ethnicity
  • Your physical appearance
  • Personal questionnaire

Alt.com verifies new profiles via:

  • Email verification (required)
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Making contact on Alt.com ★★★★★ 3.5/5

  • Have a free live video chat with other members
  • Search for nearby members using advanced filters
  • Add other members as friends or to Hotlist
  • Become a premium member for unlimited flirting
  • Upgrade to read and send messages
  • Sending messages for free is not possible

Alt.com offers several contacting options to its users. As a member of this adult dating community, you can have a live chat with live models for free. Also, you can add certain members, who you find interesting, as your friend or to your Hotlist. In addition to that, you can also search for members who are online and who are nearby.

However, having only a basic membership has contacting restrictions. As a free member, you cannot send messages nor read your received messages. Also, you cannot send flirts to other interesting members. Therefore, to unlock all your contacting options, you must be an Alt.com premium member.

Then again, as a way of communicating with other members, you can still join Alt.com’s adult chat rooms.

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Profile quality ★★★★★ 4.0/5

  • Detailed profile information
  • Viewing profiles requires premium membership
  • Shows the result of a member's purity test
  • Flaunt your blings on your profile
  • Some members prefer not to divulge information on their profiles
  • Profiles are pleasantly detailed
  • Profile pictures are not visible for free

As a member of the Alt.com adult dating community, you can complete and update your profile details anytime. It is also up to you as to how detailed you want your profile to be.

Most of the profiles on Alt.com are very informative. Some of the details which can be found on a (male) Alt.com member's profile are his endowment length and width and his circumcision information. In addition to that, also included in a member's profile are his/her (BDSM) role and level of experience. Some profiles also display the owner's AIM, MSN, and ICQ username, the result of his/her purity test (a set of questions which aims to measure how pure or naughty a member is), personality type, BDSM fundamentals, testimonials, friends network, bling, kinks, compatibility chart, and more. All these can help you have an idea about other members of this adult dating community.

However, you will only be able to view other members' profiles if you will subscribe to a Silver or Gold premium membership. Therefore, if you want to get to know an interesting member more by viewing his/her profile, you had better upgrade your basic membership. 

Our field test ★★★★★ 4.0/5

“I am one of those individuals who has a peculiar taste when it comes to sex. Let’s go back to when I was younger.

When I was a teenager, my boyfriends were either cocky or jerky. I don’t know why, but I really find guys like those attractive and hot. Having a bad boy image, to me, adds oomph to their sex appeal.  Since then, I have been fascinated with those kinds of guys. Whenever I imagine bad boy stuff being done to me, to my body, I feel hot and sexy.

However, my recent boyfriends were conventional, so I had a boring sex life. Oftentimes, their being unadventurous in bed led to our breakup. And since then, I have been picky. For 2 years, I have been single. Luckily, I found a way to satisfy my unusual sexual cravings. When I learned that there are online dating sites that are for BDSM lovers, I searched for some, and among the first ones that I saw was Alt.com. Without second thoughts, I signed up. I began looking for hot guys and started contacting them.

I have been a premium member of Alt.com for 3 months now, and I can say that I don’t have regrets signing up. I met several interesting men, but now I have been consistently seeing one guy who just brings me into the world of pleasure every time we’re together.” - Roy, 32

Design & usability

Design and Usability

The design of Alt.com is very plain and ordinary. The site uses only 3 colours - black for its background and yellow and white for its fonts. Since the site's background is dark, it may seem unpleasant for others. In addition to that, it seems like a lot is going on on some of the site's pages because some details are not properly sectioned, and there are pop-ups and embedded videos all over the page. 

On the other hand, the font style used on the site is not too big and not too small, which makes the words easy to read. In addition to that, even if the site's background is dark, the words still stand out because of their bright colours.

Special features

These special features will certainly help you make your online dating experience fun and help you effectively find a suitable match:

Hot or Not +

Photos will be presented to you one by one. Then, for each photo, you will have to decide whether it's hot or not.

Astrological Compatibility +

This section shows the zodiac signs you are compatible with, your Chinese zodiac (animal sign), and your sexual biorhythm chart. 

Testimonials +

Other members' written description of your desirable qualities. You can also write testimonials about other members on other profiles.

Blings +

These are small icons, which you can either create or grab from their creators, that you can make use of to make your profile or your posts more interestingly naughty or to simply show your personality to other members.

My Kinks +

This is where you can customise your kinks and search for other members who are into the same kinks. 

Cancelling your Alt.com subscription

How you can cancel

  • Via your profile settings on Alt.com

Contact details

CompanyAthelstan Enterprise B.V.
AddressHoogoorddreef 15, 1101 BA, Amsterdam, the Netherlands
Phone1-855-776-8436

Do subscriptions auto-renew?

Subscriptions renew automatically, cancel at least 10 days before your current term ends.

Money-back guarantee

  • Alt.com offers a money-back guarantee with a full refund
  • You have 3 days to cancel and get your money back

Alt.com gives full refunds within 3 days after successful subscription. Longer than that, they do not provide refunds, unless on states required by law.

Do your credits expire?

Credits you buy on Alt.com do not expire.

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Final results
Signup4.0/5
Making contact3.5/5
Profile quality4.0/5
Field test4.0/5
Overall4.4/5
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Alt.com FAQ

GENERAL INFORMATION
What is the difference between being a standard member and a premium member?

As a standard member, you only have access to chat rooms and magazine message boards. On the other hand, being a premium member, you have full access to members' profiles and different email functions.

What are the Popularity Privileges?

These are rewards that you get when you have many profile viewers. If a particular number of members view your profile within a period of three days, you will automatically have free access to 50 members' profiles. 

How can I receive Popularity Privileges?

There are many ways in which you can be rewarded with privileges, such as writing an interesting introduction, uploading photos, recording sexy videos, having many testimonials, and posting in Alt.com's magazine and advice lines.

How is being a guest different from being a member?

As a guest, you may enter the site and explore. However, to post something and to use the different features, you must be an Alt.com member.

What is the Purity Test all about?

The Purity Test has different questions that reveal how pure or naughty you are. 

I want to know more about the Fetish Consent Worksheet.

The Fetish Consent Worksheet is a form that can be printed. It is used by play partners when negotiating in a scene. By agreeing to participate in different fetish acts, both you and your play partner can have pleasure in your sexual adventures without confusion as to what each other has to expect. 

How and where can I view my billing history?

Just go to My Account and click Billing History and Credit Card Info. Then you'll see your billing information.

ACCOUNT AND PROFILE
How do I change my username?

Just go to My Account, click Change Username, enter a new username, then click Check Availability.

What is ConfirmID?

It is a third-party verification service that confirms members' attributes, such as gender, age, and body type. This verification aims to establish trust.

What are Profile Highlights?

These are background colours that are attention-grabbing. They show up whenever other members see your emails or see you in their search results. These highlights make your profile stand out from the rest. 

How does Email Availability work?

It allows you to stop other members, who don't match your Cupid settings, from sending emails to you. A member who doesn't match with you will only see a shaded area in your profile instead of the normal email form.

What is Voice Greeting?

It is a recording of your voice, introducing yourself to other members who are checking your profile.

How do I record a Voice Greeting?

Just go to your homepage and click the Voice Greeting link in the Profile box. When the voice recording software has already loaded, a set-up box will ask access to your camera and microphone. When you have already thought about what you want to say, click Record. Click Stop once you are done talking. If you want to listen to what you've recorded, click Play. Then click Save to add that Voice Greeting to your profile.

FEATURES
How to use the Fetish Checklist?

Click the Edit Profile link on your homepage, and click the Alt.com Fetish Checklist link. Then you can enumerate the fetishes that you like, your preferred role, interest level and experience level. After specifying your fetishes, click the Save button to save your Fetish Checklist to your profile.

What is Magazine?

It is a page that contains member-submitted content, like poetry, advice, essays, and success stories. Whenever you submit your own content or give response/s in the advice column, you receive points.

What is RSS?

It is an acronym that stands for Really Simple Syndication. The RSS link lets you set-up your favourite RSS reader to regularly notify you about new posts in that blog.

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Founder of DatingScout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
Chris founded DatingScout 17 years ago, and today he is one of the leading Online Dating Experts. He is the author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies" and the author of the Internet's largest online dating study analyzing 20 Million Profile Pictures with artificial intelligence. Chris Pleines holds a master degree in media science and appeared in numerous television interviews and publications to give expert advice as well as tips about online dating.
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