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3somer is an app created for people who are into or who want to explore having a threesome. Couples who want to add spice to their sex life aim to find the other single members who are interested to hop in. It promotes a deeper understanding of this kind of set-up, especially for beginners. 

It only has the app version as of the time of testing. The 3somer website is only for marketing purposes. It shares the link to Google Play Store and Apple Store where members can download the app to their smartphones.

The app caters not only to heterosexual couples and members. It is open for all which makes it a welcoming environment for members of all genders.

3Somer Members

1,000 from Hong Kong
Members activity
100 active weekly
Gender Proportion
21 %
79 %
  • Members are singles/couple looking for a threesome
  • High percentage of users are ages 25-34 years old
  • Most members are males
  • Find users from all over the world
  • All genders are allowed to join

The members of 3somers come from different backgrounds but are like-minded when it comes to their sexual preferences. They all are up for a threesome relationship. Regardless if they are just new to it or already veterans in this kind of set-up, 3somer is a community for them. 

Based on available data, males are dominant on the site. They cover almost 80% of the total number of members. The age is not equally distributed as well. Most of them are young adults from 18 to 34 years olds. It can be concluded that the younger generations are more open to explore having a threesome.

It doesn't matter if you are straight, a member of the LGBTQ+ community, single, in a relationship, or married. You are always welcome to join 3somer.


3Somer Age Range and Age Distribution

  • 18-24
  • 25-34
  • 35-44
  • 45-54
  • 55+

How to Sign Up for 3Somer

3Somer Signup
  • Register for free using your mobile device
  • Sign-up in less than 5 minutes
  • Email verification is not required
  • Photo upload is required
  • The gender cannot be changed after registration
  • Sign-up as single or as a couple

Signing up for the app is not complicated at all. It is similar to other apps. The first step is to provide your email address, your desired username which should be unique from all the other members. Then enter your password before clicking "Next."

The next page will ask for your age, gender (or if you are a couple), and location (country, state, city). There's a note that the gender after registration so be careful about what you choose from the drop-down menu. Before clicking "Continue," tick the circle below to agree to the app's Privacy Policy and Terms of Use.

Be ready with a photo or you can take one on the spot because you'll be required to upload a profile photo. This part cannot be skipped. 

Right after the upload, you will be redirected to the "Find" page. Then you can start exploring the app and finding your threesome buddy/ buddies.

Making Contact on 3Somer

3Somer Find
  • Contacting features are mostly for premium members
  • Send free messages to members who mutually like you
  • Adjust search filters for free
  • View online members
  • Voice messaging is available

To communicate with other members is not entirely free in 3Somer. If you are decided to find a match for you/your partner, you may opt to buy a premium membership. However, if you get matched to another account holder, you can message each other for free.

Chatting as well as sending of voice messages is available in the app. Searching is also accessible for free to all members. Adjust and save your search parameters based on gender, age, if the member/s drink and smoke or not.

Lastly, 3Somer has a reverse search feature which can let you find members who are looking for someone like you.

3Somer Profile Quality

3Somer Profile
  • View profiles for free
  • Upload profile photos for free
  • Gender cannot be edited
  • Profile information is not detailed
  • Most profiles are not complete
  • Provide some additional information on the "My Story" part

    You cannot find much information about 3Somer members on their profiles. Only the basic information and a short bio (if they filled it out) can be viewed by other members when they visit a profile page.

    A big part of the profile is the profile picture. His/Her or Their username will be below the photo with their location and a small icon for the gender. To protect the members, exact addresses are not posted. The age and height of the members can be seen as well. You or the other members may opt to provide a short bio, or  "My Story," as they call it in the app. 

    There are also heart and conversation icons on the right part which are shortcuts to contact that member.

    Despite the very little information required on the profile, you can still find some who still don't have a complete profile, especially on the bio part.

    The only things that you cannot edit once you entered it are your username and gender. All the other information can be edited on the settings page.

    3Somer Costs and Prices

    Free Features
    • Registration
    • Photo uploading
    • Searching and using search filters
    • Messaging mutual likes
    Premium Features
    • View who liked you
    • Unlimited voice messages
    • Unlimited likes and follows
    • Instant chatting with other members

    Is 3Somer expensive or cheap?

    In comparison to other providers 3Somer is average.

    Duration / Credits / CoinsCostsTotal
    1 Month15.49 USD / Month15.49 USD
    3 Months11.66 USD / Month34.99 USD
    6 Months11.00 USD / Month65.99 USD
    12 Months8.33 USD / Month99.99 USD
    3Somer Premium
    Payment Options
    • Via Mobile Phone

    The billing is recurring based on the current package that you are using. You can cancel it anytime but make sure that you cancel it before the next cycle starts. Payments are directly charged to your phone's Apple Store or Google Play Store.

    Payment will be based on your location's currency.

    Special Features

    Reversed Search

    Reverse searching is finding members who are looking for someone like you.


    This feature gives you a chance to meet another member and send a message to them for free. If you and the other member/couple liked each other, you can start a free conversation right away!

    Our rating

    Signing Up: 3.0 / 5
    Making Contact: 3.5 / 5
    Profile Quality: 3.0 / 5

    Editor's Conclusion

    DatingsScout.hk Author Chris Pleines
    Chris Pleines
    Founder of Datingscout and Author of the book "Online Dating for Dummies"
    3Somer is an interesting app. With a lot of good online feedback, it wouldn't hurt to try it if you really are into threesomes. Based on the testing, it is rare to find fake members around and there were no bots observed. However, if you are fond of using threesome with a desktop version, you may checkout other threesome sites that you can find on our Dating Site Reviews.

    3Somer FAQ


    What is 3Somer app?

    3Somer app is an app created for couples or individuals who are looking for a threesome relationship.

    Can I join 3Somer with my partner?

    Yes, 3Somer accepts members as a couple, or as a single who is looking for a couple to have a threesome.

    Does 3Somer have a website version?

    3Somer has a website but it doesn't have the functions of the app. It only shows the link where you can download the app on your device.

    Is 3Somer legit?

    3Somer is a real site where you can meet members looking for a threesome. It has high ratings in the app stores.

    Is 3Somer available for Androids?

    Yes, you can download 3Somer from the Google Play Store for your Android device.

    What is reversed search in 3Somer?

    Instead of searching for those who you prefer based on your criteria, find those who are interested in finding you.

    What are "likes" in 3Somer?

    You can click the likee button if you like that member, if you're lucky and he/she/they like/s you back, you can start messaging each other for free.


    How can I join 3Somer?

    First, you have to download 3Somer on your mobile device. Then, register using your basic information.

    How can I message another 3Somer member?

    On a user profile, you'll find the chat icon. Click on it to start chatting. You can also instantly message a match for free.

    Can I upload a photo in 3Somer?

    Yes, uploading a profile photo is free on the app. It is a requirement for registration.

    Can I edit my 3Somer profile?

    You can edit other information on your profile except your gender and username.

    Can I view online 3Somer members?

    Yes, you can view the list of online members for free.

    Account and Membership

    Does 3Somer require paid membership?

    Not necessarily. You can join 3Somer for free. It also has some free features that you can use.

    How many premium membership package does 3Somer have?

    3Somer offers a premium membership for 1 month, 3 months, 6 months, and 12 months. The benefits are the same but it differs in the duration.

    How can I pay for 3Somer membership?

    3Somer membership can be paid through your Apple Store or Google Play Store Accounts.

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